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If you are currently surviving a relationship break up then there are a range of emotions you are trying to come to terms with. Other than the fact you are still very much in love and want your ex back your chances of achieving this can be greatly improved with some well worn advice from T W Jackson’s The Magic Of Making Up.

Jackson says keeping your emotions in check during the initial split period is vital in the final outcome. That outcome for you is obviously to get back with your ex yet by letting emotions such as panic and desperation run the rule over you life then this will not happen.

Panic and desperation has a tendency to reflect itself in a physical sense because when people feel like this sometimes the only to express it is through outward emotion. Trying to convince someone they’ve made a mistake or it’s not just their fault or even needy behavior only widens the gap between you and your ex.

5 Mistakes You Can Make After A Relationship Split

So what can you do? How do you act so you can experience The Magic Of Making Up? Here are some tips to put you back in a position where your chances of winning your ex back are increased.

1. One of the first rules of surviving a relationship break up is to find some solid ground. Remember, things may seem hopeless to you now but the best thing you can do is walk away from it and get your thinking back on the “straight and narrow.”

2. Don’t contact your ex. Avoid the temptation to pick up the phone or send them a text or email. Many will do this acting out of impulse when they want to share something. It’s natural. You always shared stuff with them when you were together but you’re not now.

3. Don’t run them down to their friends. If you run into friends of your ex and they ask how you are just say you’re doing great or you’re taking a trip or you’re even dating again. Anything but being critical of your ex.

4. Avoid the temptation to show up at their favorite hang outs and then treat it as a co-incidence. People will see through this and if it happens regularly then it’s becoming more than co-incidence.

5. Don’t act needy. That is, avoid telling your ex you cannot live without them and your life means nothing without them. This is considered ugly behavior and gives you no positioning at all as well as being detrimental in surviving a relationship split.

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